Designing with Empathy: A Universal Practice for Meaningful Collaboration

In an era marked by the rapid advancement of artificial intelligence, it is reassuring to recognize that the human capacity for empathy remains unique and irreplaceable.

Introduction

On a recent project I worked on I found that I was not very clear on the subject matter and the complexity of the problems that were presented. I did not know any of the business stakeholders well, and while I had previously worked with some of the project team members, I had not yet developed a meaningful working relationship with them. I needed to get up to speed quickly so that I could start thinking about how to run discovery sessions, and how to frame the problem and ask the right questions in my stakeholder interviews.

To arrive at that stage I needed to get to know the stakeholders, understand what was important to them and what motivated them to embark on this project. To accomplish this, I spent time both privately and in group discussions with the stakeholders. The one-on-one interviews I initially conducted with the stakeholders and the group discovery workshops were helpful in allowing them get to know me as a person first, before being the individual filling the role of the designer on the project.

I was able to gain the stakeholders’ trust by showing that my role was first and foremost focused on understanding their needs and goals, and that I was immersing myself in their experiences. This was essential for the stakeholders because they were trusting me to lead the design on a project that impacted their day-to-day work, and it was also essential for me to help establish a strong foundation and build trust as I embarked on this project.

When I reflect on how I was able to arrive at that stage of trust and partnership with the stakeholders, I realize that it was the fact that I understood and related to how they felt about their work, and that I tried to put myself in their shoes by rephrasing and reconfirming my understanding of their problems. I was successful in letting the stakeholders know that that they were not alone in the challenges they were facing, and that I was there to understand the problems they were trying to solve by really imagining myself as part of their team. I wanted to show that I could relate to them so that together we could start a journey to gain a better perspective and create a great solution.

This example is only one of many I can reflect on throughout my career as a designer, where I realized the fundamental role empathy plays in providing reassurance to myself and others I worked with, that we all shared a mutual care and understanding of our experiences and goals.

In this post, I explore the need for designers to consistently practice empathy throughout all aspects of their role. For designers, empathy extends beyond end users, encompassing every individual involved in the design process, including stakeholders and colleagues. I refer to this as Universal Empathy, wherein a designer is expected to genuinely understand and relate to everyone within their professional sphere to effectively create products that are usable, impactful, and successful.

Why Empathy Matters In Design

In psychology, empathy is defined as the capacity to comprehend and share the feelings of another individual. This extends beyond courteous or considerate behavior, involving the ability to perceive situations from another person’s perspective, understand their emotions, and respond appropriately in alignment with their perspective. Such an understanding allows individuals to convey genuine support, assuring others that their experiences are acknowledged and their needs are recognized.

Tim Brown identifies empathy as a fundamental element in design thinking, particularly when addressing complex problems [1]. As a human-centered methodology, design thinking requires a comprehensive understanding of users’ needs, business requirements, and relevant organizational and technological considerations to achieve successful product development.

Kouprie and Visser [2] provide an in-depth examination of the role of empathy in design by presenting a four-phase model. They describe how designers should adopt a dynamic, multi-stage approach to empathy that includes the following phases:

  • Discovery: In this phase, designers remain inquisitive, actively observing, learning, and asking questions about users.
  • Immersion: This phase involves designers engaging directly in the user experience through interviews, observation sessions, and shadowing activities.
  • Connection: At this stage, designers identify with users and establish a genuine understanding of their feelings regarding their experiences.
  • Detachment: Finally, designers apply their insights objectively, ensuring that design decisions are informed by the observations gathered during earlier stages.

The work by Kouprie and Visser further underscores the designer’s essential role in acting as a catalyst for the phases of empathy. This helps foster the creation of effective solutions that serve both end user and organizational goals.

Universal Empathy

I would like to emphasize how the designer’s universal approach to empathy is essential to their success, the success of their team, and ultimately the success of the products they design. This approach is essential throughout the product design lifecycle, beginning with the design thinking phase and through to the development and implementation phase. Designers play a pivotal role, not only in guiding design discovery and generating research-driven concepts, but also in fostering team cohesion and promoting a collaborative culture rooted in empathy. The designer accomplishes this by bridging the gap between the user needs, stakeholder needs and the project team needs by fostering a comprehensive understanding of the goals of everyone involved in the project.

The designer cultivates universal empathy by:

  • Listening to, understanding and connecting with user needs, connecting with their experiences and knowing when to disconnect in order to be able to make objective design decisions.
  • Building trust with stakeholders and connecting with their needs and establishing a strong foundation to collaborate on building a product that meets the needs of both the business and the end users.
  • Facilitating their team’s understanding of technical design aspects by readily addressing questions, remaining attentive to the team’s needs, and helping when required.
  • Fostering an overall inclusive environment that recognizes and values feedback from everyone in their sphere, promotes successful collaboration and addresses the diverse requirements and viewpoints involved in the design process.

Conclusion

I have consistently found that demonstrating empathy toward those around me has contributed significantly to my success in my work and my career. By cultivating this approach, I learned to listen, understand, acknowledge and fully immerse myself in the experiences and feedback from users, business stakeholders, and my colleagues alike.

I have also been able to help to foster a culture in which individuals support one another and feel comfortable seeking assistance when needed. In my experience, such an environment always promoted greater job satisfaction, personal growth and stronger professional relationships that extended beyond individual tasks and contributed towards shared goals.

In an era marked by the rapid advancement of artificial intelligence, it is reassuring to recognize that the human capacity for empathy remains unique and irreplaceable.

References

[1] Brown, T. (2009). Change by Design: How Design Thinking Creates New Alternatives for Business and Society. Harvard Business Press.

[2] Kouprie, M., & Visser, F. S. (2009). A framework for empathy in design: Stepping into and out of the user’s life. Journal of Engineering Design, 20(5), 437–448.

Beyond Design: Why Top Product Designers Think Like Owners and Analysts

The rapid integration of Artificial Intelligence (AI) and Machine Learning (ML) capabilities into products and applications necessitates a shift in the role of Product Designers.

AI offers significant opportunities for organizations to address complex business problems. Users are now able to provide input into detailed data models that can process extensive datasets and generate insights through what-if scenarios and simulations.

AI-driven scenarios and simulations often rely on substantial input data and calibration tailored to user needs. As output complexity increases, it becomes essential for Product Designers to be at the forefront, understanding these sophisticated models and shaping designs that present the results in an intuitive, user-friendly way.

Consequently, Product Designers must move beyond translating requirements into mock-ups and they must instead lead the vision for how human-interactive design can refine data input, guide calibration, and surface outputs that make AI models more actionable and aligned with business objectives. In this article, I’ll explore the following key areas and what’s needed to succeed:

  • Adopt a Product Owner’s Mindset
  • Design with Clarity and Logic
  • Lead with a Hybrid Mindset
  • Growing into the Role

Adopt a Product Owner’s Mindset

The Product Designer’s role has evolved to extend far beyond interface design, especially in AI product development. By adopting a Product Owner’s mindset, designers become key contributors to defining and delivering value. They shape business-aligned product strategies that build user trust in AI outputs, accelerate decision-making, and guide teams in aligning technical execution with business goals.

This mindset grounds Product Designers in structured, outcome-oriented thinking. It enables them to ask the right questions and lead cross-functional collaboration with clarity:

  • Who are the core and secondary user groups, and what are their needs?
  • What real problems does this product need to solve?
  • How do users currently generate insights, and where can AI improve the process?
  • What does the ideal product vision look like, and how can it be prototyped?
  • What defines the MVP, and how can it evolve into the ideal-state solution?
  • How will we validate both versions with end users before development?

With this approach, the Product Designer leads the development of a comprehensive product framework that informs decisions across the lifecycle, from early discovery through MVP delivery to long-term iteration. They help align teams around a shared vision, providing structure, clarity, and strategic direction that ensures product decisions are rooted in business value and user impact.

Designing With Clarity and Logic

The role of the Product Designer has become a critical part of AI product development, ensuring the product aligns with both business and user objectives while delivering the intended outcomes. Increasingly, data scientists, engineers, and developers rely on insights and outcomes from discovery work led by Product Designers in collaboration with stakeholders and end users.

By deeply understanding user personas, journeys, and workflows, the Product Designer brings clarity to complex systems. Their work translates business intent and user behavior into logical structures that guide product development and model behavior. This structured approach lays the foundation for AI-powered experiences by turning vision and research into clear, actionable design requirements.

Through this work, the Product Designer can:

  • Provide detailed, logically structured definitions of features and requirements.
  • Deliver a comprehensive understanding of the product vision from end to end.
  • Clearly map how AI models should present results and insights.
  • Clarify business rules and data relationships within a unified design logic.
  • Address stakeholder needs with precise, high-fidelity prototypes.
  • Supply robust data validation requirements based on business-aligned designs.

By designing with clarity and logic, the Product Designer empowers cross-functional teams to move forward with confidence, ensuring that every design decision is grounded in purpose, informed by data, and aligned with user expectations.

Lead with a Hybrid Mindset

As AI and data-driven products reshape the landscape, the Product Designer’s role is evolving. Today’s most effective designers lead with a hybrid mindset, one that combines user empathy, business strategy, and technical fluency.

This mindset is not about owning a product backlog, but about thinking and communicating like a Product Owner or Business Analyst. It’s about reducing ambiguity for technical teams, earning stakeholder trust, and helping cross-functional collaborators understand how design decisions tie to business outcomes.

When Product Designers operate with this hybrid mindset, they:

  • Translate complex user journeys into actionable design decisions.
  • Align design efforts with broader business objectives.
  • Help define clear roadmaps for MVPs and ideal-state experiences.
  • Communicate stakeholder needs clearly through prototypes and interactions.
  • Build team confidence in the product’s value and impact.
  • Serve as strategic partners, connecting vision with execution.

By integrating the language of business and technology into the design process, Product Designers become trusted leaders, not just creative contributors. They provide the connective tissue that links user needs, stakeholder priorities, and technical realities into cohesive, AI-powered product experiences.

Growing Into the Role

A Product Designer can cultivate the following competencies to attain a high level of strategic thinking and leadership:

  • Focus on core business problems and user needs.
  • Dive deep with data scientists and data engineers and collaborate on design AI models that meet user needs.
  • Create value from AI models by clearly visualizing insights and provide clear data calibration.
  • Turn insights into fast, testable prototypes and iterate.
  • Collaborate across teams to shape the product framework.
  • Define the ideal state and guide releases from MVP to full launch.

It is essential that Product Designers work closely with Business Analysts and Product Owners to shape clear, roadmap-aligned backlogs that reflect both user intent and business priorities. These collaborative skills are essential for defining intuitive user interactions within complex, AI-enabled applications. Mastering this intersection of design, strategy, and systems thinking elevates the Product Designer from contributor to strategic leader, capable of influencing both product direction and delivery.

Final Thoughts

Design is no longer just about aesthetics or interaction, it’s about enabling users to extract clarity and insight from complexity, particularly in AI-driven environments. The most effective Product Designers operate as strategists, analysts, and owners of the product experience, guiding teams through ambiguity to unlock value. Whether defining a user flow or shaping a new feature, ask: Does this design simply function, or does it help solve a deeper problem? When it does the latter, you’re not just designing, you’re leading. And in today’s AI-powered applications that leadership is what shapes truly impactful products.